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The Resilience Mentor

  • Writer: gbucknell
    gbucknell
  • Oct 8
  • 3 min read

How Everyday Bushcraft Builds Confidence, Connection, and Calm


I call myself a Resilience Mentor, but really, I’m just someone who’s learned that the bush is one of the best teachers we’ll ever have.


Out here, surrounded by trees and open sky, everything slows down. The noise drops away. What’s left is simple — cause and effect, effort and reward, calm and chaos. In that simplicity, we rediscover who we are and what we’re capable of.


That’s the heart of Everyday Bushcraft — helping people, young and old, find strength through skill and confidence through experience.


Our flagship program, the One Day, Five Skills Course, takes participants — often a parent and their child — through five essential bushcraft skills: Self-Aid, Knots, Shelter, Fire, and Water Purification.


Each one is practical. Each one is deeply human.



🩹 Self-Aid – Looking After Ourselves and Each Other


Self-Aid isn’t just about patching a scratch or learning first aid.

It’s about learning to recognise when we’re struggling — physically, mentally, or emotionally — and taking action to care for ourselves and those around us.


It teaches self-awareness, compassion, and the courage to say, “I need a moment,” or “I could use a hand.”



🪢 Knots – Connection, Patience, and Trust


When we tie knots, we’re learning more than a skill — we’re learning about relationships.

Some knots hold tight under pressure; others slip when pulled the wrong way.


Knots remind us that connection takes patience, attention, and care. They teach teamwork, communication, and problem-solving — the same values that hold families, friendships, and communities together.



⛺️ Shelter – Creating Safety Wherever We Are


When we build shelter, we’re reminded that safety isn’t just found in walls or roofs — it’s something we create through preparation, teamwork, and belonging.


Shelter gives us a sense of home, even when we’re far from it.

In life, as in the bush, we all need places — and people — that help us feel secure.



🔥 Fire – Courage, Persistence, and Passion


There’s something timeless about lighting a fire.

Sometimes the spark doesn’t catch. Sometimes the tinder’s damp. But with patience and persistence, the flame always comes alive.


Fire teaches us about resilience — the power of trying again, adjusting, and believing that a small spark can grow into something strong and life-giving.


It’s also about passion — finding what ignites us, and feeding that flame in ourselves and others.



💧 Water – Calm, Clarity, and Adaptability


Water is about flow. It reminds us to stay calm under pressure and to filter out what doesn’t serve us.

It teaches adaptability — the ability to move around obstacles and find new paths when the old ones dry up.


In many ways, water is the final lesson: to stay true to who we are, even as we change and grow.



🌿 The Transformation


By the end of the One Day, Five Skills course, participants don’t just walk away with new bushcraft abilities — they leave with a deeper sense of confidence, connection, and calm.


They’ve been uncomfortable.

They’ve been challenged.

And they’ve discovered that they can do more than they thought possible.


That’s resilience — and it’s not taught in a classroom.

It’s learned through experience, reflection, and the courage to try.


“Resilience isn’t taught — it’s earned through experience.”


I’ve seen it in children learning to light their first fire, and in parents rediscovering their own spark alongside them.

In every shelter built, knot tied, and smile shared, there’s a quiet reminder:

Strength grows from challenge, confidence grows from experience, and resilience grows from the everyday.


That’s why I created Everyday Bushcraft.

It’s more than a course — it’s a way of life.

 
 
 

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